We’ve compiled a Q&A guide on the stress responses cats may exhibit when a new animal or family member joins the household, along with step-by-step strategies to help them adjust.

| Item | Period | Key Actions | Signs of Success |
|---|---|---|---|
| Stage 1 — Complete Separation | 1–3 days | Give each their own space without scent exchange | Stable eating and drinking |
| Stage 2 — Scent Exchange | 3–7 days | Swap blankets and toys, exchange scents through the door gap | Reduced hissing |
| Stage 3 — Visual Contact | 1–2 weeks | Share brief sightlines across a safety gate or glass door | Passing by without wariness |
| Stage 4 — Direct Meeting | 2–4 weeks | Share the same space while giving treats, increasing by 3–5 minutes at a time | Nose greetings and peaceful coexistence |
Since individual differences are large, the key is not to rush the stages

When to Separate Them Immediately
If the cats engage in physical fights that cause injuries, if one cat refuses to eat for more than 48 hours, or if urine spraying persists throughout the home, it is necessary to revert to an earlier step or consult a veterinarian or a behavior specialist. Forcing the process can lead to entrenched aggression.



A veterinarian who majored in veterinary medicine at Khon Kaen University, Thailand, and completed the IVSA program at North Carolina State University in the United States. Drawing on clinical experience at animal hospitals, he works in the pet healthcare field and is dedicated to building a digital care environment that connects pet parents with veterinarians.
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